Beyond therapy — beyond coaching

“What is my life actually for?”

Some people come to me for counselling. Some come for something harder to name: guidance through a threshold — vocational, spiritual, existential — where the questions ask more than “how do I cope?”

Benjamin Weidman, RCC — counsellor and mentor for depth and purpose work

I integrate four things — typically kept separate.

Wealth.

Not just money — your entire relationship with it. What you’re holding, what it’s holding, and what it would mean to move from fear-based accumulation toward a life of genuine contribution.

Eros.

Life force. Listening to the way your spirit moves. The vitality underneath ambition, creativity, desire, and drive — where it went, and what it takes to let it move again.

Sovereignty.

Living from your own ground instead of the scripts you inherited. The authority to run your life from the inside out.

Legacy.

Not what you leave behind — what you’re building through. The question of what your one life is in service of.

No tricks. No formulas. No snake oil.

What this is—

A soul-guided exploration of your most authentic self. A slow, honest look at what your life is actually for — what's been waiting underneath everything you've been carrying.

It draws on everything in my clinical training and everything beyond it — my direct experience with contemplative practice, intuitive guidance, non-ordinary states — metaphysical perspectives gathered over two decades of walking this path myself.

If you’re spiritually uncertain, spiritually traumatized, or a bit nervous about all this, that’s okay, we go at your pace.

If you feel allergic to predatory guru life coach energy that feeds on your vulnerabilities - I feel that too. I have no dogma to force feed you. No pyramid scheme. No manipulative sales tactics.

My not-so-secret agenda is that this work is all about love, finding your power and recognizing your inherent wholeness.

What this is not —

Performance enhancement and life optimization.

A quick-fix with coping strategies so you can get back to business as usual.

Driven by quantifiable outcomes that make you feel like you are still climbing a ladder of success.

A program to make your cage more comfortable.

If you sense something deeper is trying to move through your life, you are in the right place.

How it works

This isn't a session you book only when something's wrong. It's a long-form container — the kind of work that needs time to actually go somewhere.

We work over months, not weeks. Real change at this depth doesn't happen on a six-session plan. Expect a commitment measured in seasons.

One to one, twice a month. Ninety minutes, virtual, with room for the conversation to go where it needs to. Plus contact between sessions when something breaks open — you won't be sitting on it for two weeks.

Deliberately few. I hold a small number of these at a time. That's not scarcity marketing; it's the only way I can be fully present in each one.

It starts with a conversation. Not an intake or a sales call — a real conversation about what's moving in your life and whether I'm the person to walk it with you. If I'm not, I'll say so.

Investment is discussed directly, once we both know it's a fit.

If you are looking for something deeper. Let’s have a chat.

Or send me a message!